The COVID-19 pandemic has left an indelible mark on global mental health, with adolescents who experienced bereavement facing unique challenges. This qualitative study explores the lived experiences of two Malaysian siblings who lost their mother to COVID-19, focusing on their unique grieving processes and coping mechanisms. Through in-depth, semi-structured interviews and thematic analysis, the research reveals the complex emotional landscape faced by bereaved adolescents, including feelings of isolation, helplessness, and disrupted family dynamics due to pandemic restrictions. The findings highlight the significant impact of cultural norms and the loss of traditional mourning rituals, as well as the siblings’ resilience and adaptability in seeking support through religious practices and honouring their mother’s legacy. The study underscores the need for culturally sensitive, age-appropriate mental health interventions to support adolescents navigating grief during unprecedented times and provides valuable insights for developing effective bereavement support and policies.
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